EXPOSED: This Couples Therapist’s Perfect Sex Playlist!

EXPOSED: This Couples Therapist’s Perfect Sex Playlist!

I’ve had sex on the brain lately! Of course, that’s because the last class I’m taking to finish up grad school right now is Human Sexuality. We’ve talked about so many cases where the partners had stopped being interested in sex. They were at a loss for how to get it back. I’m not about to tell you that a sex playlist is the answer. But, like with most problems, doing something different was enough to bring the spark back.

Let me begin by saying that most of the time, when people think they’re doing something different, they’re really doing the same thing more aggressively. With regard to sex, that might look like using different seduction techniques to get your partner’s attention. Yes, you’re using different techniques. But each time, you’re trying to make your partner think you’re sexy. In this case, a sex playlist won’t work. Doing something really different might look like sitting down (while you’re NOT naked) and having a real conversation about how to re-build your sex life. Then, and only then, should you bother with a new seduction technique, or this sex playlist. But when you’re finally ready, you’re gonna love it!!

I made up this playlist for my old blog, Uninspired, and it brought in hundreds of views a day. Literally, it was the most popular post on my site by a wide, wide margin. Still, I chose not to initially bring it over to this new site because I didn’t think it was professional enough. But now I’m thinking that was a mistake! Sex is a super important part of a successful relationship. While it can certainly get complicated, in a healthy relationship it fosters intimacy and fun. So, in the interest of fun, I’m bringing back the sex playlist!


The Uninspired Sex Playlist Is Back!

I’m weirdly proud of this list for being so versatile. Some songs are sweet and tender, while others are admittedly pretty raunchy. Yet, still others are fun and flirty, and many are really sultry. It’s called being prepared, people!! I’m almost positive you’ll find something you like. But just so you’re aware– this is over four hours worth of music. Don’t try to get through it all in one night 😉


Burning Desire by Lana Del Rey

Young & Dumb by Cigarettes After Sex

Retrograde by James Blake

Good For You by Selena Gomez

Wednesday Night Interlude by Drake and PARTYNEXTDOOR

Down by Marian Hill

Company by Drake and Travis Scott

Earned It by The Weeknd

National Anthem by Lana Del Rey

Madonna by Drake

Take Me to Church by Hozier

Bordersz by Zayn Malik

Marvin’s Room by Drake

Hungover You by Hanne Leland

What You Need by The Weeknd

Freak by Lana Del Rey

Sweater Weather by The Neighborhood

Haunted by Beyonce

True Disaster by Tove Lo

Loft Music by The Weeknd


Sweet and Tender

Venice Bitch by Lana Del Rey

Dress by Taylor Swift

Adore You by Miley Cyrus

Pillowtalk by Zayn Malik

Nothing’s Gonna Hurt You Baby by Cigarettes After Sex

Close by Nick Jonas and Tove Lo

I Don’t Wanna Live Forever by Zayn Malik and Taylor Swift

Best I Ever Had by Drake

The Party & The After Party by The Weeknd

Thinkin Bout You by Frank Ocean



Cola by Lana Del Rey

Pony by Ginuwine

Drunk in Love by Beyonce and Jay-Z

The Morning by The Weeknd

Partition by Beyonce

Or Nah by Ty Dolla $ign, The Weeknd, Wiz Khalifa, Mustard

Skin by Rihanna

No Angel by Beyonce

Often by The Weeknd

Off to the Races by Lana Del Rey

Hey Mama by David Guetta, Nikki Minaj

High for This by The Weeknd

Rocket by Beyonce

Wrong by Zayn Malik and Kehlani

Wicked Games by The Weeknd

Body Electric by Lana Del Rey

Body Heat by Selena Gomez

Cockiness by Rihanna

Neighbors Know My Name by Trey Songz

Climax by Usher

Suga Mama by Beyonce

Birthday Sex by Jeramih

Adore by Cashmere Cat and Ariana Grande

Naughty by Beyonce


Fun and Flirty

Love Me Harder by Ariana Grande and The Weeknd

Hands to Myself by Selena Gomez

God is a Woman by Ariana Grande

Feel So Close- Calvin Harris

Bang Bang by Jessie J, Ariana Grande and Nikki Minaj

Child’s Play by Drake

Florida Kilos by Lana Del Rey

Dangerous Woman by Ariana Grande

TiO by Zayn Malik

Straight Up & Down by Bruno Mars

Shape of You by Ed Sheeran

The Way by Ariana Grande and Mac Miller

This is What You Came For by Calvin Harris and Rihanna

Work by Rihanna and Drake

Hands on Me by Ariana Grande and A$AP Ferg

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